Some weeks are measured in cups of flour and sinkfuls of dishes. This week? It’s been steps. When I need to think, really think, I need to be moving. So I’ve been walking—talking things out with myself like I’m my own best (and most dramatic) friend. That’s how I found myself mid-monologue, rounding a corner, only to lock eyes with a woman making a stealth mission to the trash bin in her pajamas. We startled each other. She clutched the top of her robe. I tried to look normal. Neither of us succeeded but we exchanged warm (read: embarrassed) hellos nonetheless.
Anyway, here’s what’s been keeping me company this week—on foot and in the kitchen.
On my bake list is are these Almond Flour Chocolate Chip Cookies. On repeat: Lovely. On my mind: In Defense of Temporary Obsessions.
Let It Be Sunday, 512!
In this week’s Sunday post, our friend Amy Estes is checking on us. If you’re feeling a bit frazzled (I can relate, hence all the walks) - this one’s for you. We’re talking about birthday cake, travel luxuries, springy pajamas, making a case for telling total strangers to shut up, and celebrating the end of the Extremely Online era. You know, just the hits.
Read this week’s Sunday post here: How We Doing?
Fresh From the Archives
If carrot cake had a peak season, it would be right now. We’re deep in the Easter Bunny, rabbits-eat-carrots, carrots-belong-in-cake, perfectly spiced transitional springtime dessert of it all.
• There are two things I’ve inexplicably adopted as core personality traits, both related to carrot cake, believe it or not:
The fact that I spent too many of my young adult years working at The Cheesecake Factory (which, fun fact, serves a very good carrot cake). Say what you will about chain restaurant life, but it will teach you exactly who you are as a person (read: if you have the ability to mask emotion on your face or, like me, cannot.)
The fact that my parents (not me… my parents!) had a carrot cake as their wedding cake in 1979. I just think it’s creative and deeply charming, and I’m proud to have creative, deeply charming parents.
Now, I wouldn’t go so far as to call myself a carrot cake expert, but I do take my carrot cake recipe very seriously: My Favorite Carrot Cake.
• Carrot cake and “no-bake” don’t usually belong in the same sentence, but against all odds, I’ve got a Creamy No-Baked Carrot Cake recipe. Instead of traditional cake layers, we’re using graham crackers (stay with me), stacked with a luscious, spiced carrot cake-inspired filling made from cream cheese, sweetened condensed milk, and a cloud of whipped cream. The magic happens as the graham crackers soften into something that feels like cake—truly, it’s a little miracle. This cake deserves more love. It’s lowkey very fun.
For Dinner This Week? Lentils, definitely lentils.
The first time I made this Cheesy Lentil Bake, it was the kind of January cold that made me question all my life choices—including why I bought a house without modern insulation and if I’ve ever owned proper winter socks. I was craving something cozy but needed something more actual dinner than a tray of mac and cheese from the meat market down the road.
The answer? Lentils: the unassuming, protein-packed MVPs that somehow make us feel both deeply nourished and like we’ve just outsmarted the entire grocery budget and can splurge on a little treat.
This bake is simple yet deeply satisfying, endlessly adaptable to whatever bits and bobs are hanging out in your fridge, and budget-friendly—because, again, lentils. I make a batch every two weeks without fail. A slice gets topped with an egg for breakfast, tucked next to a pile of greens for lunch, or eaten straight from the fridge as a gloriously no-effort snack. Cold lentil pie - somehow it’s amazing.
This recipe is from Amy Sheppard, whose food is pure, unfiltered comfort. I’ve shared this gem on Instagram, but it deserves a proper moment here. Here’s how!
Joy’s version of Amy Shepard’s Cheesy Lentil Bake
Olive oil
1 medium onion, diced
2 carrots, peeled and coarsely grated
1 celery stalk, diced
2 cloves garlic, minced a bit
A handful of fresh herbs like parsley and cilantro, chopped
200 grams (about 1 cup) dried red lentils
600 ml (about 2 1/2 cups) veggie stock
2 slices of bread, crumbled
heaping 1/2 cup grated parmesan cheese, plus more for topping
Salt and pepper to taste
Lightly coat the bottom of a sauté pan with olive oil over medium high heat. Add the diced, carrots, and celery and push around the pan to soften slightly, about 5 minutes. Add the garlic and herbs and saute for 2 minutes more.
Stir in the lentils, followed by the veggie stock, slowly - allowing the stock to soften and absorb into the lentils, about 15-20 minutes. Remove from the heat and crumble in the bread, then stir in the cheese until well combined.
Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Press a crumpled and unfolded sheet of parchment paper into a pie dish. Spoon the mixture into the prepared dish, pressing and spreading it into an even layer across the pan. Top with more parmesan cheese and bake for 30-35 minutes, until browned across the top and set.
Allow to cool for 20 minutes before serving warm or at room temp. It’s even delish cold! Store leftovers in the freezer.
Have a wonderful Sunday and as great a week as you can muster! Love you, bye!
xo Joy






Oh my gosh! I so enjoyed your lentil video. Up until this point, I've only ever read your blog, not seen you in videos. But I've been reading for a while, so you feel like a friend. It was good to see you, friend! :) Obviously you've edited your video. I'm so glad you've left in the finger cutting. I mean, it's human. Who hasn't done that??
I might have to try the lentil bake. My hubby is a pure carnivore, so it'll have to be a side dish for him. But maybe one day when he's diving into a steak, I'll enjoy this as my main entree and he can enjoy some as a side dish.
Thanks!
You’re so right—a good, long walk can answer so many questions. Happy Saturday!